No, not the big transformations that come with a big whooshing kaboom No, not the kind that shake the foundation, shift the tectonic plates, re-order the landscape, knock us reeling…. No, not the CHANGES that come from the big stuff, the overwhelming stuff, even the overwhelmingly great stuff…. This is about pocket sized change. Little… Read More
As I help others navigate through transitions and choices and as I navigate through my own, some of the questions I hear myself asking over and over are about defining or identifying the downsides– So often, we have a longing and are pulled to do something– start a website, write a book, learn something, take… Read More
This is a video by the rather fabulous Andrea Schroeder, speaking big truths about how to protect our dreams in the face of naysayers. [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lik7fHou3Dk?rel=0&w=420&h=315] Share This:
Sometimes when you’re in the thick of it, a voice whispers something important. Something that changes everything about how you interpret your experience. These past few weeks have held several of these moments for me. A newsletter I get from Jen Louden about self trust— it brought a reframing of the act of labeling our… Read More
More than a few nuggets of awesomeness in this recent TED talk given by the amazing Brene Brown: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame.html Share This:
New campfire post about avoidance! Please stop by! http://thatplacewego.blogspot.com/2012/03/dance.html Share This:
Campfire begins tomorrow night! (I am so excited!) This one is all about gently addressing our unfinished projects. Please come by. Let’s move our projects forward, surfing the wave of shared intention! Share This:
In my self-coaching sessions, I came to the peaceful and gentle realization that change does not need to be abrupt, disruptive, fast, or driven by crisis or panic. It does not need to be revolution in the sense of storming the capital or fire bombs or even sit-ins or shut downs. Small changes can accrue,… Read More
Most of us carry self stories, and most of the stories, I’ve found, are inherently limiting in nature. We rarely have self stories about our expansiveness, our amazing gifts, our flexibility, our resilience, our capacity for wonder, our ability to connect, our immense love, or graciousness… Usually they are about roles, sometimes about capabilities, and… Read More
